Wednesday, December 31, 2008

How to get onto her “great” list


Be really good at one thingThis can be kissing, a sensual massage or cunnilingus -- but whatever it is, make sure that you're darn good at it and that she enjoys it. This presents her with the illusion that you have already been educated by some other woman. If you are really good at even just one thing, she will easily accept that you are not perfect at everything and thoroughly enjoy the fruits of schooling you, however limited you may be.
Be confident in your touchAn uncertain touch shows her that you don’t know what feels good, and this clearly displays your inexperience. This is why women love those charming playboys; they have done it all so many times that they get it right the first time. She is hoping that you have touched enough women -- or at least one woman enough times -- that you know what feels good and what doesn’t. Granted, not every man has been blessed with even one decent ex-girlfriend, but don’t let this hold you back: If in doubt, enjoy yourself. Another reason women choose playboys is because they love to put their hands all over a woman’s body -- this makes women feel sexy. Touch her because you love to do so, and she will be thrilled that you are enjoying it so much.
Learn to relaxYes, it’s hard, I know, but try. She will be able to feel it if you are tense and trying too hard to please her. Just relax and feel free to let her take over anytime she likes. You will learn a lot. If you are not relaxed, you will end up committing a line of faux pas, such as kissing her like you are a bull terrier crossed with a leech or hurting her by being too rough or careless. Being relaxed allows you to ooze confidence, so take a deep breath, make a conscious effort to relax your face, shoulders, neck and back, breathe out, and be fluid.

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