A spouse will not lie without cause. It is only when your spouse wishes to hide something from you that he or she will lie to you. They will tell a lie when asked a direct question or reasons for indifferent behavior.
1. Change in schedules. When you find that your spouse is returning later than usual from work or going out earlier than he or she used to, when asked the answer is vague and snappy.
2. Immersed in deep thought. Your spouse has begun to look very thoughtful and absentminded during most of the time. They are inattentive to what you may be saying and when you call attention they are taken aback with alarm.
3. Change in level of confiding. A drastic change in the level of confiding and sharing of their daily lives has suddenly set in. When you ask your spouse the reason of this change you will get an answer which is evasive.
4. Answering the phone. Your spouse will answer the phone in a very suspicious manner. They will move out of range whenever you happen to be around. The answer you get will be that the call is official or a wrong number.
5. Distancing from you. Suddenly you find that your spouse is too busy and has little time for you. They attribute the reason to tension and pressure at the work place or work front.
6. Mood swing. The mood swings get more and more frequent. Your anxiety about this will only result in a snap from the spouse because they cannot answer truthfully the reason of this.
7. Little or no sex with you. Your sex life comes to a standstill and even when you try to take the initiative they are standoffish. They will give you the excuse of being too tired because of work and work pressure.
In each of these cases when your spouse answers you it will be evasive and without eye contact which happens only when a person cannot speak the truth.
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