1. Talk To Her. Ok, might be an obvious one but if you're feeling like the sex isn't as good as it used to be, try talking to her about it. Just knowing that you feel that way can help. Being honest is really important, so have a frank conversation with your wife about your sex life and see if you're both on the same page about it not being what it was before.
2. Role Play. You don't have to go crazy with this. Even just calling each other a different name will have the desired effect. There is something very freeing about pretending to be someone else. You might be surprised with how much easier is to try things or say things when it's not really you who is saying them. So send her a text and use a different name. Ask her out. Make some comment about her boring husband. Be serious about staying in character, and you will create a living fantasy that has the potential to unleash sexual sides for both of you that you didn't even know existed. This will go a long way towards spicing up the bedroom and bringing back the passion.
3. Lick Her. Did you know that it's far easier for her to orgasm from oral sex than from intercourse? Well, it is, so make sure you know what you're doing down there and that your tongue is strong enough to be up to the task. Oral sex is the best thing you can do for her that is all about her pleasure.
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