If you're pondering the truth that he dumped you while asking yourself how will I ever survive this, you're in the right place. This article may not necessarily give you comfort, but it will help in other ways. Remember that though you have broken up, you are not broken.
When women are in the position of being dumped, we resonate with two fears. The first fear is that the pain is so great that we'll never overcome it. The second fear is that we won't find a love like this again and no one will love us like he did.
Even though these fears are real, neither one of these fears have merit. They exist only in your head. But that's what you'll think about for a season of time. One portion of your life may have ended, but you life is not over.
There are people who care about you - namely, family and friends. Now you'll have even more time to spend with them than before. Most times when you get into heavy relationships, you lose touch with all of the other people that add fullness to your life. Now that your relationship is over, you have time to reconnect with them.
Honestly, as you share your loss with your loved ones the door will be opened for them to reciprocate and share their painful break up experiences with you. Telling them he dumped me will stir up empathy in them and show you that they were hurt, as well. As they share their stories with you, you'll see that your pain is not unique. You'll find that they've survived their break ups and lived full lives after the fact.
The break up will allow you to have more time for others as well as time to spend on the things in your life that are or were important to you. Many times when you're in a relationship you set your desires aside and succumb to the wants of your partner. Now that you're on your own, you can go back to the things that you're interested in. get re-involved in the things that matter to you.
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